It is natural to be attracted to happy people. I actually find myself staring at strangers who have beaming smiles on their faces. Am I weird?
The thing is, it’s hard to be happy all the time. Sucky things happen, and that’s just life. Obviously you can’t keep that smile on your face 24/7 and that is totally okay.
I have found the easiest way to keep smiling,(and that’s a natural smile by the way, not a ‘I should smile even though I don’t feel like it type smile'), is to start looking at what you have rather than what you don’t have. As soon as you eliminate those negative thoughts about things that you don’t have, that smile will start appearing more and more, and it will be a real one!
Surround yourself with happy people because happiness is contagious!
The Secret (my all time favourite book) says that thoughts are magnetic, and thoughts have a frequency. As you think, those thoughts are sent out into the Universe and they magnetically attract all like things that are on the same frequency. Everything sent out returns to the source.
" Your current reality or your current life
is a result of the thoughts you
have been thinking.
All of that will totally change as you
begin to change your thoughts
and your feelings. - The Secret "
So if you wake up and think, ‘today is going to be crap.’ You’re right. Your day is going to be crap with that attitude! So turn that frown upside down and say ‘today is going to be great!’ And really believe it.
No matter how bad a day you’re having, there is going to be something that can make you smile. It might be a memory, a song, a friend, a family member, a boyfriend or a girlfriend, a photo, food, a social occasion, a butterfly, the ocean, anything! I know what it feels like to be in a bad state of mind where the last thing you want to do is be positive. But trust me, if you make a really big effort to change your negative thought process, and yes sometimes it is hard, I promise you, you will feel so much better.
So it is a great start to be thinking happy thoughts. But if you are feeling happy as well, that puts you on a whole new frequency. A really good one. You are a human transmission tower, and you are powerful!
Soon you will be fully dressed with that big beautiful smile, and I'm excited for you! And if you're already smiling, keep up the good work, and pass around the smile!
Feb 12, 2015